Tempe, AZ -- (SBWIRE) -- 12/14/2011 -- The biggest sticking point for most guys when they’re just starting to learn how to get a girlfriend is that they are far too dependent on outcome- namely a positive outcome. They start their interactions with women with subtle expectations, whether it being that the girl should like them immediately, or with the fear of what a rejection might do to their self-confidence. But according to Mark Sing and Erik Amino, the creators of the Instant Attraction Video series, there's an important question to ask:

“Is investing your emotions in the outcome of an interaction a wise thing to do?”

Of course the answer is no, and that, they claim, is the single most important key to learning how to get a girlfriend.

“To invest your emotions in anything that is outside your control is a recipe for disappointment,” says Mark Sing. “The correct mentality to have when approaching women is that of non-attachment to outcome. You should be ok with whatever happens, and see the interaction as nothing more than your own personal entertainment. You're going over there to entertain yourself, and whatever happens; HAPPENS. It's interesting, because when you have this mentality the outcome you were hoping for in the first place is more likely to occur.”

The basis of their video series is to turn their clients into high value males. “The high value male,” according to Erik Amino, “is the guy with options. He has tons of women in his life, so when he speaks to a new one, he truly doesn't care what happens. And since women are unconsciously wired to pick up on these behaviors (behaviors of the alpha male), they will become more attracted to you because of it.”

With this philosophy in hand the first thing the duo teaches their clients is to let go of outcome. The first thing you need to do,” says Mark Sing, “is to tell yourself: ‘You know what, whatever happens, happens. If I get her phone number, cool. If not, that's cool too. I'm here to have a good time and that's exactly what I'm going to do.’"

The team claims that when their students truly master this mindset the results are staggering. “Just getting this vibe down increases the success rate of our students by 60%. It seems simple, but it really is that powerful. We have some amazingly effective techniques to help our students get this dynamic mastered fast. So fast in fact that most students see results on the first day of learning it.”
To learn more about Mark Sing, Erik Amino, and the Instant Attraction Video series, please visit: http://www.instantattractionvideos.com/

About Instant Attraction Videos
Released in mid-2011, Instant Attraction videos in a comprehensive home-study course that outlines the step by step system for attracting women. Created by Mark Sing and Erik Amino the course is based on female psychology and self-esteem and has been studied by several notable psychologists including Dr. Harry Reid and Dr. Steve Peterson. The course has also gained a considerable amount of media attention. To learn more please visit the website or contact Jessica Sinclair at admin@instantattractionvideos.com