White Cloud, MI -- (SBWIRE) -- 05/26/2015 -- Marriage expert Hellen Chen states 85 percent of relationships end due to a breakup. Of those that do lead to marriage, 50 percent end in divorce. Sadly, in many of these relationships only one party wishes to end the arrangement, yet he or she doesn't know how to go about preventing its demise. When the relationship has already ended, it becomes even harder to figure out how to rekindle the flames, and the Flavorphp Boyfriend Site works to provide advice for those who wish to achieve this goal.

"First and foremost, individuals need to ensure they wish to have the other party back. After some soul searching, many find they don't necessarily want that particular person. They are looking for someone in their life, yet getting back together will only lead to another breakup because the behaviors that ended the relationship the first time are still there. One should always make certain they wish to have that specific person in their life before attempting to regain the romance," Sharon Johnson, spokesperson for Flavor Personal Help Poetry, declares.

Determine the causes of the breakup. Some find the relationship lost its excitement, yet others failed due to one or both parties cheating. In many cases, individuals panic immediately following the end of the relationship and do things that will only drive him further away. It's good to take a break and focus on other things before attempting to reestablish the connection.

During this time, a female should work on doing things to better her life. Try new clothing and hair styles or pick up a new hobby, as doing so will increase self confidence. Furthermore, women who concentrate on themselves may find they attract someone new or they don't want the ex-boyfriend back in their life any longer. They have better things to do now, and this will only increase his interest, Johnson explains.

Once a female moves on and begins doing new things, it's time to connect with the ex-boyfriend. It's best to touch base and possibly begin as friends, keeping everything casual at this time. This allows him to feel a connection without being overwhelmed, and he won't be pressured to make a decision that will only hurt both parties in the long run.

"Don't rush the process. Getting an ex-boyfriend back takes time, and the one thing a woman should never do is rely on pity or neediness to regain a romance. Be aware that some men will move on to a new person, regardless of what the ex-girlfriend does. When this is the case, move on and find someone new. Ladies who do so find their life improves in numerous ways, as they no longer look to the past, but enjoy the present and happily anticipate the future," Johnson proclaims.

About Flavor Personal Help Poetry
A collection of authors from across the globe, Flavor Personal Help Poetry provides the expertise individuals need when it comes to relationships and the advice they want to win back the love of their life. As every couple is unique, the diverse backgrounds of the writers are of great assistance. Individuals find they can review the various scenarios to see which ones most closely match theirs and make use of the appropriate advice. Only honest advice is provided with the best intentions.